I wrote this for the Collingswood (NJ) High School Class of 1964 50th Reunion May 10, 2014, since I can't attend. I post it for anyone interested. ~Bob
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I grew up
in southern New Jersey
and my parents divorced when I was young. My dad remarried when I was eight.
He, my step-mother and my two brothers moved to Connecticut
when I started 10th grade, so I lived with my grandmother in Collingswood
(sleeping on a pullout couch) while I finished high school in the Class of 1964
.
I was very
patriotic and I wanted to serve my county, so in 1964 on my 18th birthday I took
the bus to the Federal Building in Camden ,
registered for the draft, and then walked down the hall past the Army, the
Navy, the Air Force and into the Marine Recruiting Office. A SSgt asked, “How
can I help you, son?” I said, “Where do I sign?” – and in August I was off to Parris Island . Fortunately for me, the Marines sent me to
electronics school in San Diego
to be a Radio Relay Tech, which wasn’t my choice - I wanted to be in the
infantry. After a year of school, the Corps sent me to the 10th Marines, and
artillery regiment at Camp
Lejeune --with no Radio
Relay gear! In June, my outfit was going on a six-month cruise in the Caribbean
but I volunteered for Vietnam .
At first I was told they didn’t have orders for me, but when I requested to
meet with my regimental commander,
orders came through—along with a promotion to Corporal. I was on Okinawa
at first, then with HQ, 26th Marines at Khe Sanh in Vietnam until September 10, 1967.
My tour ended before the Tet Offensive and the Siege of Khe Sanh, so I was
lucky again. I say the NVA were scared to attack while I was there!
I had
intended to be a career Marine, but when I came back from the war I was
convinced it had been screwed up due to the politicians. I decided to go into
politics so I could “fix things.” (I was 22 and naive!) My parents were now
living in Massachusetts ,
so I went home to live with them while I attended college. I had been a “D”
student all through high school and had terrible attendance at CHS - I tell
people I graduated in the top 95% of our class. I applied to Mount Wachusett
Community College , after being turned
down by Fitchburg
State , and scored in the
98th percentile on the SAT exams. I worked all through college at least 20
hours a week—one semester for 35 hours a week, while taking six courses,
getting A’s in 5 of them, and at the same time I was student council president
and Lunenburg campaign organizer for a congressional candidate. I also played
first board for the chess team and was school champion.
I
transferred to the University
of Massachusetts , where I
served on the student senate, graduating in June, 1972 with a BA in Government/Political
Science. Being a Vietnam Vet in college in those days wasn’t a problem for me
because few care to cross Marines. I ran for state senator in the Third
Worcester District of Massachusetts that November and beat the incumbent by
nine votes out of 60,000 cast, with the last town to come in putting me ahead
at 6:30 am. This was the first time a Republican had been elected in that
district since 1938. Fitchburg
State then had to come to
me for help with their budget, and while I always helped them, I never let them
forget that they had turned me down for admission in 1968.
I won my
second election in 1974 by 10,000 votes, carrying every city and town in the
district. My third time running in 1976 I was nominated by both the Republicans
and the Democrats, defeating a Democrat in his primary on write-in votes. I
have a Worcester Telegram political
cartoon from that election of me debating myself in the mirror. I think I have
always had good political instincts, and thanks to the Marines, I have a disciplined
work ethic. My 50-year old debt to my Marine drill instructors, Sergeant
William Harris, Sergeant Michael Martin, and Sergeant Ezekiel Owens, Jr.
continues to grow—they gave me the priceless gift of self-discipline. (I was
very saddened to learn of Sgt. Owen’s death in December of 2013.)
In 1977, I
rejoined the Marine Reserves, so during the week I was a state senator serving
in the Massachusetts State House and on weekends I was a Corporal sweeping the
floors. By 1983, I was a Staff Sergeant, but had to leave the Reserves due to
conflicts with my new career. I also went back to college at night while in the
senate, and in 1980 I received an M.Ed. degree in history from Fitchburg State University .
I served
five two-year terms as a state senator, but I was burned out by 1980. I was
spending 95% of my time on trivia and getting re-elected and 5% on what I was
supposed to be doing, so I decided not to run again. My parents had moved to Florida and I was sick of winter so I didn't run for
reelection in 1982, and moved to Florida
myself.
I was
hired to be the Executive Director of the Florida Psychological Association in Tallahassee . At the time,
the Association was being clobbered because they had lost their licensing law.
Essentially anyone could move to Florida
and apply for an occupational license for $25 - people were getting their
hamsters "licensed" as psychologists. Although I knew very little
about association management, they wanted my political experience. The only
office equipment they owned was a stapler! When I left 10 years later they
owned a debt-free office building, and membership had tripled.
I got into
Scottish Country Dancing in Tallahassee
and met my wife Bonnie when she came to one of the classes I was teaching. She
was a widow with two teenagers and I was a 46-year-old bachelor. None of my
friends gave it more than three months but we’ve been together for 21 years.
The teens were tough--payback I guess, but I now have a 13-year-old
granddaughter, Britnye, who I love dearly. I proposed and we were married 18
days later in a full Scottish wedding with bagpipes, dancing, two Celtic
singing groups, Scotch and haggis. During this time I also designed the
Leatherneck Tartan for US Marines. It’s registered in Scotland and is
being worn worldwide by Marines.
From 1982
until I was forced to retire due to pulmonary fibrosis in 2013, I worked for a
several associations as executive director, a couple of which were turn-around
situations. Every association I’ve worked for had more members and was stronger
fiscally when I left than when I arrived. I moved to Madison ,
WI to work for the American Association of
Cosmetic Dentistry in 2002, then moved in 2008 to the American Association of
Hip and Knee Surgeons in Illinois ,
my last association.
One
of my passions is writing. I’ve published hundreds of articles and opinion
pieces, plus some short fiction and poetry. I’ve also published 11 books,
mostly through Amazon. (http://tartanmarine.blogspot.com/2010/07/new-book-published.html)
All author royalties from my books go to charity, including the Injured Marine
Semper Fi Fund and the Pulmonary Fibrosis Foundation. I produce a conservative political
blog (The Old Jarhead Blog, www.tartanmarine.blogspot.com) and get as many as
5,000 page views a week. Two of my books are poetry. One is Old Jarhead Poems. The Marine Corps
Heritage Foundation gave it the Robert A. Gannon Writing Award for Poetry in
2012. I met the Commandant, several other generals and many Marine heroes at
the dinner—a thrill for an old SSgt. My three secrets of good writing are to 1)
Read a lot. 2) Write a lot. 3) There is no such thing as good writing, there is
only good re-writing.
I was
diagnosed in 2006 with early stage pulmonary fibrosis, which got my attention
because my mother died from it when she was 69, but I continued to work,
pulling an oxygen tank behind me for the last three years, and never missed a
day due to feeling sick. In March, 2013 it took a dive and I was using 10 to 15
LPM of oxygen from Oscar the Oxygen Tank just to walk slowly. I retired as AAHKS
Executive Director on October 1, 2013, though worked from home as an advisor
until November 30. On December 23, 2013, I received a right lung transplant
through the VA. I did great for six weeks but now there are some problems with
the new lung, so I had debridement surgery three times and a stent put in between
March 3 and March 13 when they released me again, and have more scheduled, so I
cannot travel to NJ for the reunion. I wrote the administration of both the VA
and the University of Wisconsin Hospital that there was not one medical professional
on the staff who I wouldn’t be willing to have care for me in the future. However,
there are factors in play with my lung beyond the skill of the best team. One
in five lung transplant patients die in the first year (and it's now 50-50
which group Ill be in), one in two in the first five years, so I'm not out of
the woods and likely never will be--this is a life long management situation. But
at the rate I was declining in December before I received the lung, I doubt I'd
have been here now--so I'm playing with "House Money." As a history
major, I know that at 68 I've lived longer than 99% of the people ever born.
Because I was born in the USA ,
with a free market, property rights economic system, I've also lived better
than 99% of the people ever born. So I have no complaints, whatever comes.
I'm
sorry I can't be with you, but such is life--and I'm glad to still be here.
~Bob
Hey Bob, My name is Crystal Laramore. I publish a VERY patriotic and conservative newspaper in Texas. Most of my family, from generations back and to today, have served in the military. I served in Iraq for 18 mos. with the DOS. That is where my love for the Army waned and my love for the Marine Corps. grew. I have a section in my newspaper called Military Minutes and I would love to include some of your articles there. Please. For me. I came across your blog by doing a little research on the "I'm 63 and I'm Tired" blog. It has resurfaced once again and has brought me to you. Hope you are feeling well today. Happy Good Friday Sir. Semper Fi. My email is news@thedamgoodtimes.com. We are on twitter @damgoodtimes and on facebook The Dam Good Times, LLC. Our logo is an Eagle reading a newspaper.
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